- What makes Melissa stand out from other psychics?
- Does a psychic know everything about me right away? Can he or she read my mind?
- Does a reading over the telephone, Skype, or FaceTime really work? It seems like in-person would be most effective?
- Do I need to do anything to prepare for our reading?
- How does connecting with passed-on loved ones work?
- What if I’m skeptical of psychics?
- How am I going to know if a psychic is “real” or not?
- Why would a psychic ask me some questions? Wouldn’t he or she already know the answers to these things?
- Am I going to hear bad things that will happen to me?
- Do all psychics use tools (like tarot cards, pendulums, crystal balls, etc.) during a reading?
- Does a psychic’s ability work all the time, or is it just when the psychic is focused?
- What if I’m uncomfortable at any point during our reading?
- What’s your cancellation policy?
- Good Tips to Keep In Mind
I provide insight for my clients from their Spirit Guides using many methods. I am clairvoyant, meaning I see things. I receive images or symbols, and often it’s as I’m watching a movie play out in my head. I will not only describe this to you, but also express emotions or feelings I feel in the situations I connect in with. I often draw pictures of the images I receive for my clients which helps me best communicate what I see. This is a useful, visual take-away for clients to have and reflect upon our reading together. Many clients have gained deep insight from this. I scan the drawings to clients who use Skype. I have the ability to record each psychic reading and send it electronically afterward. The client receives the files as an mp3 and can save it to listen to later. I prefer the client stays completely present during our session rather than trying to remember everything or taking notes. The recording allows the client to get the most from our time together by listening to it later. I delete the readings from my computer afterward, as your confidentiality is important to me.
No, I am not a mind reader! I have a specific process I follow to connect in with my clients, and my intent is to provide clients with guidance, not to try to read minds! This being said, if you have any expectations please discuss it with me first. Each psychic works differently so please communicate any questions, concerns, or expectations you may have prior to starting our session.
Does a reading over the telephone, Skype, or FaceTime really work? It seems like in-person would be most effective.
Yes, distance readings are just as effective as in-person readings. I work with a person’s energy, and as long as my client on the other end comes with an open-mind and heart, we should not experience any difficulties connecting with one another. The results are the same no matter which method you choose to use for our reading.
It is helpful to prepare a list of topics you’d like to explore during our session. If you have specific questions I encourage you to have them with you, too. Good questions get good answers, and the more general your questions are, the more general answers your guides will give. If you are struggling to come up with “good questions” I will help formulate them during our session!
If you’re trying to connect with someone who’s passed on, having pictures or objects of that person’s with you can be useful, also, though it’s not necessary. You’re welcome to e-mail me photos in advance if that’s more convenient.
When trying to connect you to a passed-on loved one, I prefer we ask that person to step forward by name. There is energy associated with a person’s name, and asking your loved-one to step forward provides me with a starting point to work with.
I find this approach works best, as it “sets the stage” for the spotlight to be focused on that person only. I’ve attempted in the past to ask anyone associated with the client to step forward from the Other Side and I’ve found this isn’t always effective. It opens the doors for many spirits at once to come forth, which can be confusing because they send mixed signals of who is coming through. Also, clients often expect someone in particular to come through who may not. To avoid disappointment, calling out the spirit by name helps achieve the best results.
Once I have the person’s name we’re trying to reach. I do my best to describe any symbols I’m being shown, feelings about them, personality traits/characteristics, etc. that would let you know that indeed I’m connected in with that person and their energy. Once you feel sure we are connected, I move forward asking that spirit to share any messages for you and your loved ones, as well as for signs or symbols you can be on the lookout for, to know that this person is still around you.
Bringing photos or objects of that person helps me to connect to their energy as well. It is not mandatory you present a photo or an object but it does help. You’re welcome to e-mail me photos in advance if that’s more convenient. If doing a distance reading, you can have the person’s belongings with you, as that also provides the spirit’s energy for me to connect into.
It occasionally happens that we’re unable to connect in with a passed-on loved one. This may happen because they are unavailable energetically, their energy isn’t coming through strong enough for me to make a solid connection, or sometimes it isn’t meant to be for whatever reason. If I am struggling because their energy isn’t coming through strong enough or am unable to do so, I will let you know.
Keep in mind that if you approach our reading with doubts or skepticism, you create an energetic wall or barrier, making it very difficult for me to connect with you. The more relaxed and open you are, the better our results are. Keep in mind you sought out my services for a reason, and coming as open as possible will provide you with the best outcome.
I ask you to give me 15 minutes to fully connect in with your energy. I start readings by sharing a few random thoughts/feelings/visions that come to me about you. Most of the time they make sense and I continue connecting with you from this point forward. If after 15 minutes you feel we aren’t connecting, please communicate that to me and we will end our session. Like anything in life, once in a while a client and I do not “click” and if I’m having trouble connecting with you, I will let you know, and I hope you do the same.
I’d encourage you to read reviews clients have written about working with me. I think they’ll help you better understand what my style is like and what others have to say.
Why would a psychic ask me some questions? Wouldn’t he or she already know the answers to these things?
Psychics aren’t mind readers! Therefore, no, I do not have all the answers! There are times I might ask you questions during the session purely to make sure the question I’m asking to Spirit is as targeted and focused as possible. I believe strongly that good questions get good answers. You may think you know what you want to ask but it may not be as clear as I think it could be. Therefore, I might rephrase your question in a more specific, targeted way. I will ask you if my rephrasing sounds like what you want to ask.
I might also ask you a question about something I’m seeing (without you telling me the answer) and explain why I’ve asked it. I do my best to articulate why something comes up as a question at times so that you understand I’m not fishing for information. It purely serves a purpose to move the reading along in an appropriate manner/pace if I have full understanding of your needs/context around our topics being discussed.
I begin each session with a prayer to your Spirit Guides asking them to bring forth message for our highest and best through the White light of protection, which means anything deemed “negative” or “dark” will not be allowed to enter our consciousness, as our Guides are protecting us from it. If I do share something with you during our session that is unexpected, please understand it’s coming through for your highest and best. With this in mind, please only ask questions that you are ready to hear answers to. I will not and do not ask questions pertaining to one’s own death, or anything else that isn’t for our highest and best to know.
No, not all psychics use tools. I primarily use my connection to Spirit and source energy to provide information for you. I have recently started to pull one card from my Ascended Masters card deck prior to the start of our session (which I read its meaning to you at the end) – this is usually the “cherry on top” as it will most likely pertain to some aspect of our reading. I may ask to touch your hands to begin an in-person reading only because it helps me to connect with you that much quicker, though it is not necessary.
Everyone works differently. I prefer to turn my abilities “on” and “off” when I work with clients. You’ll notice I begin and end all sessions with a clear invitation/closure for our guides, teachers, spirits, angels, loved ones, etc. to come and to go. I find this works best for my style so I’m not bombarded with spiritual activity before or after working with someone. My intuition is always ready and available, though I do set clear boundaries to avoid spiritual overload. At any time during our session, please feel free to ask anything that will enhance your experience – my concentration will not be broken.
If you become uncomfortable for any reason during our session please communicate that to me. We can discuss how to proceed from that point. If you choose to end your reading, I only ask to be compensated for the time we’ve spent together. I respect you and your feelings, and will never force anyone to stay longer than what they are comfortable with – the choice is completely up to you.
If you need to cancel your appointment, please provide as much notice as possible.
A credit/debit card is required for in-person sessions as well as clients redeeming gift certificates (this excludes clients who have paid 48 hours after booking their session). In the event you cancel your appointment within 24 hours or miss our appointment for any reason, you will be charged 50% of the cost of your reading due to short notice.
This is an appointment-based practice and needless to say, canceling with short notice, showing up late, or simply not showing up is very disruptive for my schedule and unfair for other clients who value prompt service. You are making a commitment not only to yourself, but to me and my time. Your respect in this matter is greatly appreciated.
- Come prepared with an open-heart and open-mind.
- Ask only questions you want to hear answers to.
- Remember: Good questions get good answers. That means that periodically a psychic may ask more specific questions about what you’re asking. This ensures the “right” questions is being asked to your Guides. I like to focus in on what you need to ask. Approaching questions with a broad perspective lends itself to receiving a general response.